How can I deny her? If my 21 year old son took up smoking, I would be very very cross. After the awkward moment passed, we talked and found out she has been smoking for nearly half a year and is addicted. Create an account or log in to participate. I changed her and her hair smelled! Forums; Groups; . She's very much like me, copying, I started because my friends has a teenager got me into cigarettes and since then smoked. If it was anyone else who wasn't going to see dd a lot I would let it slide. F uck I hope she's gonna be okay. I have never read a post be anyone who has said anything about regretting their decision to get their child smoking young. Link for those who want to see smoking links and smoking galleries, Link for those who want to see smoking links and smoking galleries, Re: Smoking Girls are cool..(Cindy is Sexy), Re: Smoking Girls are cool..(Linda is cool) :). Group Owners uphold the core values of the brand by reporting content that violates the community guidelines. I know smoking isn't very healthy, but at her age, I guess it isn't doing all that much harm. Follow us for the best, hand picked confessions. They wouldn't be allowed to smoke in my house or in my car though, I don't allow anyone to do that. The post about how to tell my cousin who is a single mom no to asking for money. But so proud of her and I love her so much .I'm still fu*cking tired baby, Amy thinks I'm coming down with something. I am proud of my GD now that she is a full time smoker. Threads and Posts; Total Threads: 67 Total Posts: 449: Last Updated: Something about me by Senior Secret Smoker (Oct 14, 2022 22:07:45 GMT -5) You're my baby twinny because I'm 17 days older than you. Johnny_D. My ex wife is a chain smoker and actually buys smokes for our 15 year old daughter! The best thing the dad can do is not allow the daughter to smoke around him. Most parents don't let their child soke at 13 because they know the damage that it does. I loved to see her My husband hates smoking and I did too. Some forums can only be seen by registered members. In every case, both the mom and the little girl know as soon as the child learns how lovely the feeling of smoke going into their young lungs feels, that getting properly addicted is the only option. Show your support by donating any amount. The toxins of a cigarette stick to EVERYTHING. 2022 Hearst UK is the trading name of the National Magazine Company Ltd, 30 Panton Street, Leicester Square, London, SW1Y 4AJ. (Note: We are still technically a for-profit company, so your Forum timezone: GMT-6 VF Version: 3.00b, ConfDB: Before posting please read our privacy policy. Thank you all so much, all of our friends without kids keep telling us to just let it be. She said she'll email you sometime today little sis. Given that the mother is funding a lifelong addiction that kills something like one-third of the people who have it, yeah, I think it could be grounds for loss of custody. My neighbour openly lets her 13 year old Daughter smoke. This discussion is archived and locked for posting. My GD has now been smoking for a year, she loves lighting herself up in bed when she wakes up and soothing herself ahead of the day ahead. August 10, 2020 | by beebej97. 3: 9: Legend. Too be honest i cried after spanking her. I would tell my son/daughter what I thought about it but that's as much as any parent can do really if they are an adult as they need to make their own decisions. Its a fine balance, almost like caffeine in a way. I think this one is fake. Tonight they want to eat Tide pods and then test out their cardboard wings as they jump off the roof. All because you snitched on me for smoking in school uniform and I've seen you smoking in uniform. A link that will let you reset your password has been emailed to you. He even buys them cigarettes and and a couple of bottles of alcohol once in a while. Most of my family smokes but my ex-husband and I do not. lol He says he does it for stress relief. here's my advice: its just a sign of the times. Brett won't let momma buy anything for them and he won't take money from her. So it has been 24 hours since my last analog, now my SO wants an ecig! But I still went back to sleep bout 10pm. The only reason I don't feel too terrible about it is that I smoke and started at her age, and nothing bad has happened to me. What to Expect supports Group Black and its mission to increase greater diversity in media voices and media ownership. just my opinion but if she REALLY wants to try smoking, let her, get her the nastiest cheap unfiltered cigarettes you can find and let her try it. I just don't want to make things awkward but after this smell today I wouldn't be doing what I feel is right if we just let it happen. She really likes to smoke. I've tried to get him to a few times - he smokes cigars - but he's against it for reasons I don't know. He got weak clouds too- when he saw mine he was like "How the hell are you getting that much?". General Discussion Oct 13, 2022. 1 2 3 Next canucklehead Lifer Aug 1, 2018 2,059 9,264 Alberta Apr 30, 2020 #1 I haven't tried any D&R tobaccos yet. Jus be honest. You could go for full custody because what's happening is illegal and harmful, but that's hard to do with teens. manchild May 13, 2016 | 10:49. Both when I became a smoker at 7, my own girls at 4 and 6, and my GD at 4, each of us as little smokers quickly knew we wanted to get heavily addicted and each of us, as we sat their with our burning smokes between our little fingers, knew within a few days of smoking how beautiful it felt for us to now have no choice but to keep feeding our growing need for smoke. DIGITAL SPY, PART OF THE HEARST UK ENTERTAINMENT NETWORK. What to Expect has thousands of open discussions happening each day. I mean really! Cos obviously other people read what we post.I did try to post on other days but this site was either down, my messages disappeared or seemed to be infected by a po^rn site.I did email Belinda but she never replied. I mean really! Give the twins kisses from me honey Livvy & Leah are going to share the money they going to make later today n it's actually gone up to $1200 cos Livvy wants Matt to fu*ck her too. Oksana and April , April & Oksana - Two cu nts with no life, obsessin over other bi tch's - they well jel LOL, Oh come on then tell us wot u bin up to. So is it when the mother etc. You cannot be with them 24/7 and unfortunately at 11 we make some choices that are not good for us. I am very proud to say that she has been clean since September and that Baylee loves her Granny :), Just tell her it's your dd and you guys don't want her around smoke and if she don't like it then she shouldn't come over. If not, I suggest you just leave the girl to it, she will smoke whether her mum is there or not, nick **** and wat-not. Followers 0. Writing, Painting, Photography, Poetry, Reading, Music, Meditation, Happiness. Johnny_D, I have not said her concern is nothing worthwhile, i haven't even said anything like that at any point?! Also wanted to respect Isabella's privacy by not going in to great details about her health. Registered in England. Allow her to make her own choice. She's just worried about you. Smoking children have always existed, there are now, and always will be. Some people don't deserve children.. Does it really matter? Now that's she over 16 we had out first hookah together last night.. Nice! Mommy knows she owes Isabella an email but she's been too sick to send a reply. Take up a hobby and stop keeping a close eye on your neighbours. That's disgusting. Chuck Roast and Beans. Copyright 20052023 ConfessionPost.com. Want to read confessions and comments uncensored? Copyright 20052023 ConfessionPost.com. If you feel a message or content violates these standards and would like to request its removal please submit the following information and our moderating team will respond shortly. welcome to britain. I just laugh at her now. Congrats! I'm going back to hospital with Olivia in about a hour.I tried posting from the hospital but the messages kept disappearing. We got divorced two years ago and I have her every other week. She's not being a brat about it are anything, she saw me using the e-gig and asked if she could start smoking. I spent my lunch money on cigarettes, or aquired them through dubious means. There are a few recent posts from moms who have guided their little 3 or 4 year old girls through the stages of beginning to smoke, and , once they have got the hang of it, supported them to develop heavy 2-3 packet per day addictions. If you do not receive your email shortly, please check your spam folder. If this board gets too many fetish posts or too many debates that sound more like a verbal fight, I'll have to resort to making posts moderated. She actually won't be thirteen for till September. Group Leaders arent expected to spend any additional time in the community, and are not held to a set schedule. 2 . There were too many comments and people were questioning me. :rolleyes: The sad fact of the matter is that the mother probably doesn't give a damn, the child will do whatever she wants to anyway regardless whether her Mother knows or cares. After you create your account, . I wonder if I did the right thing. Her blanket and all her clothes smelled! I. There are many fantastic posts by very loving mothers who have helped their children take up smoking - quite a few when they are just 3 or 4. I for one love hearing this and dont see a problem. The results of the poll are amazing, with a total of 1059 mothers who helped their child become a fully addicted smoker at the age of 5 or younger, 156 at 5-6, and 240 when their child was 7-8. I feel I've got too carry through. Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! She was asking how much Isla smokes. Forum Member 14/03/08 - 17:20 #1 Hi, can anyone advise me on this. Emotions & Assistant Moderators are now available along with assistant moderators ( member accounts only), as well as many other improvements to the site. share experiences with you. I'm 7 years old . She reminds me of myself when I was around her age. I am so pleased for her, and she looks absolutely adorable with a burning smoke between her delicate little fingers. Sorry to be so blunt but it's real easy to me.. Don't let he hold her. If youd like to join in, please sign in or register. The only reason I don't feel too terrible about it is that I smoke and started at her age, and nothing bad has happened to me. Thank you!!! My son always complained about his grandmother smoking and I was hoping that my kids would be smart enough (with all of the education on topic that is readily available these days) not to smoke. Grandpa does cuss but only around his buddy's but he doesn't cuss when he's speaking to me or my girls, but we don't cuss any less when he's with us.Isla and Aria were cute yesterday , Isla had Aria in her lap cuddling her, cos Isla was naked as is usual for her, Aria decided to see if Isla had any milk for her, so she moved her mouth to Isla's nipple, even tho she had got no milk she kept trying, they were both giggling cos Isla said it tickled. Same goes for our friends if you want to see the baby take a shower and come straight over no cigarettes on the way. PayPal Acct: Underage smoking isn't illegal, it's only illegal to sell cigarettes to a minor. Until he picked that up, I was pretty uneducated on the huge world of ecigs. I am a s** addict. Yes, as an adult you have the right to do as you wish but that is not going to stop someone who cares about you from being concerned if you start doing something that is potentially very damaging. None of your business, you know nothing of the circumstances. Anonymous confessions, stories and advice. Take it from the son of two smokers. All Rights Reserved. I will not give you money for cigarettes. VoyForums (tm) is a Free Service from . JavaScript is disabled. I told her about 12 to 15 ciggys a day and she wants to hear that she's started f ucking once she's potty trained. I really do not see what more any parent can do with a child who is approaching her teens and has to have some freedom. We know they love your t*ts so much. When I see my GD's 4 year old face as she pulls her smoke deep down into her lungs a look of utter contentment and comfort. Beef Sep 5, 2022. . My 11 year old daughter was smoking in her room when I unexpectedly walked in on her. This morning I got Isla to share her cig with Aria by giving her smokey kisses, that was fu*cking hot to see tbh If you speak to Mommy please send her kisses & hugs from me, I did message her about 4/5 days ago.Love you my sl*utty sis,Isabella xxxxxxx, Anonymous confessions, stories and advice. I have to be that blunt. 2022 Hearst UK is the trading name of the National Magazine Company Ltd, 30 Panton Street, Leicester Square, London, SW1Y 4AJ. Hope you're ok sis, much love.Leah , Leah Mommy emailed Isabella this morning but forgot to ask her if she is able to smoke in hospital. Jake has been getting plenty of smoky kisses from Libby, Summer, Brett and me just like Aria gets them from you, Leah, Olivia and IslaYour big sis Teges , Babe Bella,Does grandpa cuss. Learn more about. The lack of respect is you thinking her concern is nothing worthwhile. So i don't live my own life, i just live for other people? Do you all have a neighbourhood watch and keep tabs on this family? Even in this forum there are such cretins. I haven't dismissed them, i started a thread to have a discussion about them. I have had the same conversation with her over and over and over where she moans about it and says she doesn't like me smoking and wants me to stop and i tell her i am an adult and i have freedom of choice. I state in my OP that i can appreciate why a parent might worry. think twice before sharing personal details, foster a friendly and supportive environment, remove fake accounts, spam and misinformation, delete posts that violate our community guidelines, reviewed by our medical review board and team of experts. Never have I read a post expressing any regret about the mom's choice to get their child smoking.Based on all of these thousands of posts, I am in no doubt that, even though the idea of kids smoking is taboo, there are hundreds and thousands of people who know that they are doing the right thing supporting their beloved little girls to smoke, and to become heavy smokers like their moms.I hope this confession can become another active place to bring all of you mothers, aunties, fathers, grandparents etc. My opinion is you have to live life for yourself. Me and my husband have the same feeling about smoke. I just don't ring it up. We're coming back on Sunday.Love Tegan , Leah That's terrible news. My husband has tried talking to her about the health risks and she just defended herself saying that she raised 3 kids and smoked and they are all fine. Hard to say. She is the most unlikely of girls you would expect to pick up a smoking habit, generally a sweet innocent girl. 4. Was i too harsh on her. But I did feel bad cos I shud have fed my 3 babies, so I got up 6.30am this morning and all the cu*nts are still asleep.Leah had Matt over last nite they were fu*cking, she was going to his house but cos of me they stayed home, they are cute together. Neither my husband nor I are about to quit. Lol. I'd like to email you. Hi, im new to here.Im 45 and have been a light to heavier smoker over the years depending on head space and circumstances over the years.Im so over my smoking story, yet am still leaning on the smoke screen and want to empower myself by ditching it for good. It is a disgusting habit It is illegal to sell tobacco to anyone under the age of 18 in England and Wales. We tried to wake Isabella but she was unresponsive but breathing, I called her Grandpa but he couldn't wake her. Very cool. 16 and luvin it!! !Love Olivia , Thank you Livvy. Sign up for a new account in our community. Smoking may be a short lived thing. After the awkward moment passed, we talked and found out she has been smoking for nearly half a year and is addicted. I find it far more reprehensible when parents first make their children drug addicts at the early age of 6 to 12 years and secondly exploit them sexually, as described in the poll mentioned above, for example. The results of the poll are amazing, with a total of 1059 mothers who helped their child become a fully addicted smoker at the age of 5 or younger, 156 at 5-6, and 240 when their child was 7-8. You got me suspended from school and now I can't see my friends at school for another 3 weeks. I told her it was OK for her to smoke. When she was about to leave she handed Hannah back to me and my daughter smelled like she had smoked a cigarette herself! quite alot of parents are kids themselves or just couldnt care less about there offspring! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. This is the law as it currently stands in the UK; Could be purchased at the age of 16 until 1 October 2007. Even better is the feeling for the family once the little girl gets herself a heavy adult addiction. You can't do anything here but lead by example. Like almost anything, girls tend to get up to it before boys. All i have done is post a thread saying i choose as an adult to smoke and i don't see why i should stop just cos my mother doesn't like it. She is health conscious and there's no new boyfriend on the scene either. Smoking Forums - Ask an expert about smoking. My children all want to eat as much sugar and play with dangerous items as much as they want, so we just happily help them. My mil does smoke and also does in her house. Sometimes its easier to just accept a childs destructive behaviour - at least then you can still have a relationship and be a source of support when they decide they need it. I think its a fascination and see what its like kinda deal. canucklehead Apr 30, 2020 Forums Main category Pipe Tobacco Discussion Not open for further replies. she always washes her hands before touching him i live with her. But feel that because I've told her what her punishments were. My husband flat out didn't care if she smoked or not. She lives with me and I don't let her smoke in the house, something she used to moan about but she knows I'm not going to change my mind about that. Some of the links on this forum allow SMF, at no cost to you, to earn a small commission when you click through and make a purchase. I would much rather he not use anything at all, but I would have to say that an e-cig is the lesser of 3 evils?? Welcome to VoyForums - A free service from Voyager Info-Systems. Your children how many did u have and how old when they started smoking, I love that i have 3 children 5 7 9 all smoke 1ppd any moore parents like there children smoking your grand children how much ppd do they smoke and u, Such beautiful prose. She tells us she loves smoking and doesn't want to stop, and we tell her we love her smoking too.Children who smoke and their loving parents are the best. I wish she would stop but I know she's not going to unless it's what she decides. I'm asking for my Mom. LOL, I'd be f ucking great if Teges got flattened by a f uck'n bus.April, Izzy and that f ucking drag queen Logan must've f ucked off together. I feel a bit guilty but not too much, for some reason. Tell her you continue to do it because it's an addiction. Shes upset over loosening privileges, early bedtime and not getting too go to her friends party on friday. All rights reserved. She's grounded for two weeks with early bedtime at 7 for next two weeks and a bare bum spanking before bed every evening before bed You did the right thing. We're talking the babies to the Gold Coast this morning but I'll be able to reply. By . Brett is sweet with them too, you got a good one there babes. Your a disgrace. My husband is livid because we don't want this for our daughter. I smoke with my mom every once in a while. She just doesn't want you to have any health issues or, god forbid, die before she does. A Group Leader is a What to Expect community member who has been selected by our staff to help maintain a positive, supportive tone within a group. gonna make a thousand bucks when Matt watches her being f ucked by Matt, wow that's a sh*t load of money . Feedback: The posts on this board are currently unmoderated. I do not approve of it I bet she's missing you & Jake sis?Love ya babe Isabella xxxxxxx, Isabella Mommy said she owes her daughter (you) an email but she's not been well. My dh and I have decided not to go to her apartment because we don't want Hannah around the smoke, but we can't keep her from coming to our house. [quote name='jorlyfish' timestamp='1309016467' post='513613']. Nagging doesn't work either, nor does pleading or begging. I smoked at 13, and my parents had little choice in the matter! Twin Chloe You're the best fu^cking twin ever! My mum hates me smoking, she walks in my house and claims she can smell smoke all throughout despite it never once being smoked in. My mom is a cigarette smoker. There isn't a thing you could say or do that would make a difference if a kid senses a double standard about it. She was having scans when I left.I just come home now with my dad to get the girls things cos they are sleeping at my parents tonight now. I have a 9yo girl who smokes 3 ppd since she was 7. who have let your children begin smoking together and share the joy that we see on our kids faces when they take a satisfying drag on their smoke. Come to find out she said she started by taking her mothers but my ex instead of not supporting it just ended up buying her packs. to get their little one smoking.Lots of warm smoke-filled blessing to you all xxxx. In the case of children who smoke, however, society immediately turns it into a huge problem and condemns the parents who allow and encourage it. Underage smoking, what happens? That q**** Leah talked about her health being serious 7 days ago. Note that once you confirm, this action cannot be undone. But parents who make their children drug addicts and sexually exploit them are not condemned in public forums, but rather j*** off while reading. 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